How to absorb your enemies and be like Mega Man

Learn from your enemy

The next step is to study and analyze your “enemy,” just like the song says. And whether your enemy is a person, thing, or even just your own feelings, there will always be multiple angles, both literal and metaphorical, from which you can analyze it in order to take take away numerous positive things.  At the risk of coming across as someone who only talks about his illness all the time (I don’t, honest!), I’ll use it as an easy example since sickness is a relatively common experience that many can relate to in some form or another.

So starting with the non-figurative level, what gifts have I uncovered from years of struggling with Lyme disease and chronic fatigue syndrome? There are too many to do justice to in this article, but I’ll share a few. I’ve learned perseverance: I used to be one who gave up on things prematurely but no longer. I’ve learned patience:  in an age of instant gratification I know that just because what I want isn’t happening now doesn’t mean it will never happen. I’ve learned humility: I used to kind of see myself as a lone hero type who “saved” others but I now see myself as one who *serves* others, and moreover not a lone hero but part of a greater team. And you’ve heard of selfless giving? Well, I’ve learned selfless accepting: meaning I no longer let pride and ego get in the way (as much) when it comes to accepting help that I know I need but might have once rejected. I could go on and on with these examples.

I’ve also learned much on a figurative level. For instance, in order to fight this illness I’ve been forced to research it, and in my research I’ve become fascinated by the intelligence and strategic behavior of the bacteria that causes Lyme disease, borrelia burgdorferi. I kid you not when I say this thing is like something out of a sci-fi horror movie. Attack it with antibiotics and it morphs into a different form that evades that particular drug until your body becomes devastated by antibiotic overuse. It can burrow deeper and deeper into your tissue, hiding inside protective biofilm that prevents antibiotics from reaching it. It can go dormant and trick your body into thinking it is healed before it comes back again with a vengeance. No wonder borrelia is said to be one of the most evolvable bacteria discovered, and how do you fight something like that? By also evolving. So borrelia  has a penchant for transforming into something else to survive. Fine, then I too will become something else in order to survive borrelia. For instance, I will no longer be an overly humble and self-effacing person who accepts being sick as his lot. I will become one who does whatever it takes (barring hurting others) to get well. I will expand my self identity in order to make room for actions that I might not have considered before such as the radical acceptance of help from people, however uncomfortable that might be.

Remember your lessons, use them as your weapons

There’s far more depth and complexity to the example I’ve given but the point is just to give you a basic idea of what I mean by absorbing figurative lessons from your problems in addition to the non-figurative ones. It also points to one more step beyond simply analyzing your adversary’s tactics. Sometimes you may have to employ those very same tactics yourself to some degree. And if employing those tactics doesn’t sit well with your self-image of yourself, why, then maybe you need to expand your image of yourself. Sometimes, it might be warranted to “become” your enemy/problem in a sense, but in a way that isn’t hurtful to others (“absorb what’s good and reject what’s bad”). This, of course, is marvelously symbolized in the Mega Man games whenever our hero defeats one of the many villains that Dr. Wily throws at him (Snake Man, Cut Man, Fire Man, Ice Man, etc.) in that the villain’s power or weapon is now Mega Man’s to keep, only our hero uses it for good. He even turns these villainous weapons back upon the villains themselves (“fight fire with fire”). Likewise, I will turn the Lyme bacteria’s craftiness back upon itself: when it morphs into a different form, so too will I rotate different antibiotics to keep confusing it (“learn from your enemy”).

The way Mega Man, after absorbing his enemies, takes on their color when he uses their powers is also symbolic and beautiful. In fact, it gets to the very heart of the Pop Mythology mythical approach to the problems of life. When you are just little ol’ you (i.e. most people’s limited conceptions of themselves), you might feel powerless and unable to surmount a challenge. But when you are, say, Mega Man, or Han Solo or Imperator Furiosa, would you feel powerless then? Probably not. One solution, then, lies in the creative use of arguably the greatest ability humanity has ever cultivated: imagination. Use your imagination to become  Mega Man who, in turn, also becomes something else when the situation demands it (kinda poetic, isn’t it?). Adopt a creative identity larger than what you normally see yourself as and the pain of a life challenge can be turned into the sweetness of victory (“you won’t have to be so blue” – literally in Mega Man’s case).

I’ll leave you with a quote by one of my greatest personal heroes, Bruce Lee, who was so much more than just an entertainer and martial artist – he was a bona fide philosopher:

“You must be shapeless, formless, like water. When you pour water in a cup, it becomes the cup. When you pour water in a bottle, it becomes the bottle. When you pour water in a teapot, it becomes the teapot. Water can drip and it can crash. Become like water, my friend.”

He was using different words for a different context, but essentially the core of it is similar to what I have said here. So scroll back up, replay Meri Amber’s awesome song and imagine yourself as something greater than your small, everyday image of yourself. After defeating so many enemies, Mega Man eventually becomes a veritable army of one, able to contain more than just himself. Be like that, an army of one, able to do and be whatever is necessary, without hurting others, to emerge from your struggles victorious.