Iron Man: Step Up to the (Metal) Plate

One look at Iron Man in both the comics and the movies and it’s not hard to see why, on the surface, he’s such a popular character:  He’s rich, famous, good-looking, surrounded by cutting-edge technology, creatively and intellectually brilliant and armed with the funniest mouth in the Marvel universe next to Spider-Man.

In short, he’s everything that women want and everything that men want to be.

In this post I’m going to talk about why the true value of Iron Man as a modern, mythical archetype has nothing to do with any of the things above – well, except maybe his sense of humor which I can definitely appreciate.

The comic, during its ongoing run, has explored many themes and evolved and shifted its focus.  Once again, therefore, I will use the films – beginning here with the first one – as the basis for my talk since they so beautifully encapsulate the most important and valuable themes and lessons of Iron Man.

The Inmost Cave

“The cave you fear to enter holds the treasure you seek.” –Joseph Campbell

In his seminal Hero With a Thousand Faces, Joseph Campbell wrote about a stage in the archetypal hero’s journey that he called the Belly of the Whale.  It has also been called the Inmost Cave by other commentators.

Although this stage usually comes later in most stories, in the film adaptation it comes very early on in Tony Stark’s journey.  Instead of the gentle, quiet call to adventure beyond the ordinary world that most heroes start with, he is abruptly and violently yanked from his comfortable existence and thrown into hell.

Campbell’s inmost cave is quite literal in Tony’s case.  Kidnapped by a terrorist organization known as the Ten Rings, he is imprisoned in a cave hidden in the remote mountains of Afghanistan.

The terrorists give Tony an ultimatum:  make a weapon of mass destruction for them or die.

Knowing that there’s little chance of being found and rescued, and that even if he makes the missile for the terrorists that they probably won’t let him live, Stark briefly flirts with despair (just like Bruce Wayne in The Dark Knight Rises‘ prison sequence which is the spiritual cousin of the cave sequence in Iron Man).

It’s his co-captive, a local engineer by the name of Yinsen, who snaps him out of it.

Yinsen:  What you just saw. That is your legacy, Stark. Your life’s work – in the hands of those murderers.  Is that how you want to go out? Is this the last great act of defiance of the great Tony Stark? Or are you going to do something about it?

Tony:  Why should I do anything? They’re gonna kill me, you… Either way, if they don’t, I’ll be dead in a week.

Yinsen refuses to indulge this line of thinking.  He simply says, matter-of-factly, “Well, then. This is a very important week for you, isn’t it?”

The first act of the movie, centering around the cave sequence, is all about Tony learning personal responsibility and accountability.  He sees first-hand the far-reaching effects of his actions and callous lifestyle.  He excelled at making powerful weapons and since doing so made him rich he simply did it without looking into or even thinking about its repercussions.

During the ambush by the terrorists, as Tony tries to scramble for cover, a shrapnel bomb lands in front of his face.  “Stark Industries,” reads the logo on the bomb.

Call it karma or what you will but the bomb in this scene represents the proverbial chickens that have come home to roost.

You Do It to Yourself, You Do

Our world is a vast, intricate web in which every strand is linked, directly or indirectly, to every other.  All of your actions, therefore, have repercussions to some degree, even actions that you think are negligible.  To logically argue how and why this is so would require its own post (hell, its own book) so just entertain the idea for the moment.

Think of a bad situation that you have ever been in or might be in now.  In the majority of cases, shocking, unpleasant and controversial as this may sound, you chose it.  It doesn’t mean it’s your fault but, in a way, you did choose it.  I’m going to make an arbitrary distinction here between “fault,” which implies wrongness or badness, and “choice/responsibility,” which is simply the power to make things happen.

The choice to be in a bad situation is never intentional, of course.  If someone were to ask you, “Do you want to be sick? Poor? Lonely? Unhappy?”  The answer to all of these questions would obviously be no.

But both the natural and social worlds that we live in work in certain ways and to thrive in them we must first study and understand them and then live and act in ways that are conducive to what we truly want deep down.

The problem is, first, that most people don’t really know what they truly want the most.  They think they want what culture and society tells them to want.  Secondly, regardless of what we think we want, we rarely truly understand how to go about getting it.

Such was the case with someone even as successful and powerful as Tony Stark, something I’ll get back to in a minute.

The point I’m making here isn’t intended to be pessimistic or condemning, and if you stick with me you’ll see how this is actually the most self-empowering attitude that you can take.

As you examine the bad situation, first detach yourself from your emotions and ego.  Next, float up and take the bird’s eye view of both that situation and your entire life side-by-side.  You might even draw this on a piece of paper as a kind of mind map or diagram if it helps.

Recall all your many different thoughts, ideas, attitudes, values, desires, priorities, goals and – most importantly – actions in the months and years leading up to the bad situation.  If you are extremely thorough, analytical and objective, you’ll start to at least vaguely see how all the dots are connected.

There are exceptions, of course, but this is usually true, at least partly, even in situations in which it doesn’t seem like you had any choice at all in the matter. A deeper introspection, honest and expansive, will reveal that your life decisions have had some part to play in it – perhaps not intentionally, directly or knowingly.  But in a long series of choices and mistakes that you either consciously or unconsciously made in the years leading up to this, you essentially did choose it by default.

Bad choices and mistakes made out of ignorance are forgivable but they are not good excuses because ignorance is also a kind of choice.  Lack of money isn’t an excuse.  Lack of time isn’t an excuse.  In the end, nothing’s an excuse.  How do you use your money?  How do you use your time?  If you answer these questions with complete honesty, without any self-delusion, you might find that you gradually run out of excuses.

Someone will read this and inevitably ask, “So you’re saying that victims of accidents and violent crimes chose it?  A child who’s born with birth defects chose it?”

Please don’t oversimplify or misconstrue the point I’m trying to make.  As I said, there are exceptions and many unfortunate incidents in the extreme range will fall into those.  I’m mostly speaking here about the reasonably normal range of difficult problems and challenges that people periodically face in their lives.

I will say, though, that even for things like accidents (unless they’re freakish or catastrophic accidents) and illnesses (unless it can be proven that it’s entirely genetic) we often do share at least a degree of choice and responsibility.  (Again, don’t forget my distinction between “fault” and “choice/responsibility”).

I could literally go on and on about this point for pages, but at this point I’ll return to Iron Man and how its lessons can empower you greatly.

Coming Out of the Cave

The cave sequence in Iron Man is all about Tony realizing the effects of his actions and taking responsibility for them.  To save his life, he uses the same skills and abilities that he used to create those problems in the first place to find the solution.

Like pretty much everything in superhero movies, the way he makes the battle armor out of scrap metal and blasts his way out of the cave isn’t realistic in itself.  It’s the hidden meanings contained within that have real value, and here they are:

(1) Personal Responsibility

We are all Iron Man.  It doesn’t matter that you’re not rich, famous, powerful, good-looking or anything of that nonsense.  Those are merely incidental character details.  Iron Man’s true power is the power of responsibility and accountability.

The principle of responsibility doesn’t apply universally to all situations. There are certain kinds of bad situations that can happen and be maintained through a complex network of reasons and chain reactions that are not always our direct fault. But even in bad situations that we did not cause, we always have the power to respond to the situation in different ways.

However, with many personal situations there often is a degree, however small, of choice and responsibility in it. In such situations, it’s not that you have to claim responsibility.  It won’t make you a bad person if you don’t.  But the reason why it’s so important to claim responsibility is that unless you do, you will forever be powerless to change your situation and circumstances if you don’t like them.  Why?  Because you’re simply a victim at the mercy of whichever way the wind blows.

If, like Tony, you accept responsibility for a bad situation you’re in, then you’ll realize that since you’re the one that, in some way or other, created the situation, this also means you have the power to change it.

We can’t control the outer world; we can only control ourselves. So if the responsibility lies with the outer world, there’s nothing you can do but resign yourself to your predetermined fate. If the responsibility lies with you, you can change things. All you have to do is use the same mind that made those previous choices and actions and use it in a different way.

(2) Collective Responsibility

Iron Man is not just about responsibility for personal problems. It’s also about shared collective responsibility.  Each of us is a part of innumerable social groups, entities and institutions. As alert viewers can see, the film shows how the social/political are inseparably connected to the personal.

Are you aware of the karmic repercussions of the activities of the social bodies you’re a part of? Not just on the world but on your own life and level of happiness as well? If you don’t, you’re not alone.  Tony didn’t, either, until his crisis in the cave.  “I had my eyes opened,” he says. “I saw that I had become part of a system that was comfortable with zero accountability.”

Even after he saves his own life, he further goes on to learn ways in which his company has been involved in under-the-table arms dealing which has caused great suffering in numerous parts of the world. His ignorance of his company’s actions, while only human, is still no excuse.

Like Tony, it may very well take a personal crisis for each of us to become more aware of how the social groupings and institutions that we support or contribute to in some way affect both our own lives and the lives of others.

If you’re not aware of the consequences that the systems to which you are complicit have on the world, don’t beat yourself up for it. Those very same systems and institutions often make it hard for you to know. It’s not in the pharmaceutical companies’ interests, for instance, for you to easily have access to data about just how bad some drugs can be for you versus safer alternatives.

Simply decide, if you do become more aware, how you feel about it and what you want to do about it.  Often, you might not be able to do much about it directly. But you can always, always do something about it indirectly.  Remember that, like the butterfly effect, everything is intimately connected.

Once again the same mind that you used to both create and solve your own personal problems can also be used to serve the world in some way.  The first makeshift suit that Tony makes in the cave saves his own life.  The second, more advanced one that he makes afterwards saves the lives of others.  The mind that created both is the same.

The “suit,” for you, can be anything about yourself.  It can be your everyday kindness, your smile, your sense of humour, your people skills, your baking skills – seriously, whatever.  Never underestimate the power that even the smallest attribute or quality can have if used right. On the other hand, all the wealth, intelligence and power in the world won’t do squat if you’re complacent.

Never say that you don’t have enough talent, brains, money or anything. Tony Stark created the first suit out of scraps of metal in a cave and the fact that the character’s a genius or whatever is irrelevant.  He’s not a real person; he’s a mythical archetype.

What Tony Stark’s hour of trial in the cave symbolizes is the power that we all have, even in a bad situation, to create something of value with little resources.  Entire artistic and cultural movements – hip-hop, for instance  – have been created this way and have gone on to change the world.

So what are you waiting for?

Step up to the (metal) plate and be a man.  An Iron Man.